Even though this might be a bit of a gender stereotype, I have noticed that most of the time, women tend to be more of the Type A, organizer, planner types. Women are usually the ones that plan the vacations, plan the dinners, keep track of the kids’ sports schedules etc.
In general, women are very good at taking charge and keeping things on track and organized where men tend to be a little more “go with the flow”.
The funny thing is – this needs to be the 100% total opposite while in the dating phase.
I don’t know why nature got this backward, but it’s the reason why so many women struggle with dating and why they sabotage their own dating game.
Women so often want to jump in and start the text conversations, plan the dates and follow up on the dates afterward but this doesn’t work.
For years and years, society has taught men that they are the ones that need to do this. They are the ones that need to plan the dates, check in with texts, follow up afterward, and keep chasing the woman.
If you do all this stuff for him, you’re stealing his job and he’s not going to like it.